Reliving Every Detail of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s Two Weddings

As she saw it, “The 20 years between those dreams of youth and the adult world of love and family we embraced that day, brought more to this marriage than either of us ever could have imagined. We weren’t only marrying one another; we were marrying these children into a new family.”

To surprise her groom, Lopez tapped songwriter Marc Cohn to perform “True Companion,” the number they’d long ago deemed the perfect wedding soundtrack. 

“Later Ben told me that the chords of the song and seeing Marc Cohn both shocked him and allowed him to feel the way both roads we had walked found their way, inevitably, inexorably, and perfectly together,” she detailed in her newsletter. “And when he saw me appear at the top of the stairs that moment it both made absolute sense while seeming still impossibly hard to believe, like the best dream, where all you want is never to awaken.”